There are 3 main components to bring forth language skills.
Look, listen, respond.
From the second babies enter this world, they are communicating. Crying, cooing, body language, eye gaze, pointing, grunts, smiles, and more. Eventually, those grunts turn into words and the crying turns into “But, Mom!”. The point is, everything babies do before producing an actual word is communication. It’s the only way they know how to get attention.
As infants, babies cry because they are hungry, tired, for pain and for comfort. Parents and caregivers learn their baby’s signs and what they need, when they need it. Months go by and babies start reaching for what they want, crawling to explore another room, and vocalizing for mom, food, toy, etc.
Throughout your day, recognize the signs your baby is giving you and respond. This makes baby feel like a good communicator, and he will continue to communicate with you. As you label items and people, baby will pick up on that too.
A 7 month old clings to his Momma while she makes dinner and he reaches towards a bottle on the counte, grunting. “Ehhh, ehh, ehhh, ehhhhhh” Mom turns around to see what he is reaching towards. “Oh you want your milk? Say ‘Milk’ ” Baby responds “ehhhhhh” Mom: “Good trying! Mmmmmmilk, milk” And hands him the bottle.
The baby gives mom a big smile and drinks. He thinks “I made a noise, I pointed to my bottle, and mom gave it to me. I’ll have to try that again, mmmmmmm, this milk is good.”
Mom didn’t force him to say milk, and she didn’t ignore him either. She recognized that her baby was trying to communicate with her, and he was using the language skills he has. Pointing and grunting.
The next time you are with your child, put something out of reach that he likes and see how he responds. Respect the skills he currently has and respond to the vocalizations. Or if you try to help with blocks and he turns away from you, that’s body language saying “I can do it myself!”
In the meantime, model language through books, songs, and everyday conversations. Your body language is important to them too, so smile and give that baby a hug.